Hey peeps! Lovehoney is partnering with me to do a giveaway. In light of the Fifty Shades of Grey movie having just come out I thought it would be fun to give away a bondage kit. Krista from Lovehoney and I decided on the Fifty Shades of Grey Hard Limits Restraint Kit. Now, it may sound scary but it’s perfectly acceptable for beginners. (Scroll down for entry.)
I wanted to give you a safe way to play; a safe way to explore your sexuality and your partner. The cuffs are made for comfort and won’t cause damage to the wrists like metal handcuffs, something I worry a lot of beginners may try.
I do want to address something about the movie, though. There wasn’t trust, mutual respect, or complete consent. Those are all essential for this type of play. If you want to have good advice on bondage I’d recommend the following books.
For instructional exploration in kink Tristan Taormino is an awesome sex educator who is a skilled author and well versed in kink; Midori is also an expert in kink and although her book may be aimed for a bit more experienced kinky peeps, it’s still a helpful read:
As for erotica that displays consensual female submission I’d suggest:
(Just an FYIzzle: If you click on the pictures and purchase one of those books I’ll get a percentage of the sales!)